Monday, June 10, 2013

Assumptions

Why do we assume? Do we do it because we want to know the future or because we don’t like how our fate is undetermined? Assuming is something that tears people up, especially when they have feelings for something or someone and they don’t know how they feel back. They worry themselves to the point where it messes with their mind and they cannot let things go without assuming the worst. Sometimes the worst may come, but how do you know? You have to let life unfold in front of you. Don’t let the worries of your day get you down. Let your life become something that everyone wants to follow, because without an inspirational journey, no one will want to follow. And to get an inspirational journey, you have to head down the path that leads you to your destiny, but it’s what you do on that path that takes you to a whole new level. If you are excited and happy, people will be more into you and will like talking to you more and hanging out. But if you’re depressed, no one in this world will want to put up with you anymore. Be yourself and make other people happy. That is each and every person’s job in life.

Thursday, May 30, 2013

The Way You Fight

Sometimes, there are things that just don’t work right. Sometimes there are things that you fight for and still have a reason to fight for, but the way you fight for them will mean the difference in life and death. There are people who will tell you that all you've worked for is hopeless, but you cannot listen to them. You have to know in your heart what is right and what will keep inspiring you and pushing you forward. You have to make sure that the people who do care about you, really do care and are willing to help you. Maybe you have to start over and completely make new friends because all the friends you had, have left you. I've been there. I've hit rock bottom and sat there with no real inspiration, with no real dedication to do anything. But you have to get up and move on. Sure, there may have been some issues that you wanted to resolve before you thought you could move on, but by moving on, you very well may resolve those issues. And if you don’t, then once you have become someone better, then consider resolving them, if it is appropriate. But remember to never give up.

Saturday, May 25, 2013

The Key To Happiness

When you are down, when you are in a time of need, never forget the glorious memories that you've had. Never forget those times, because those are the times that may keep you going. Those are the times that will lift your spirit up when it has fallen. Sometimes friends aren't enough to keep you going. Reminiscing on the good times is something that you should always be doing. Cover up all those bad memories with memories that were joyful, cover up those thoughts with smiles and never let the sides of your smile fall. Become outgoing, become inspiring, become something worth something to yourself because when you do that, you will start to see the beauty of yourself. You will love yourself more and when you learn to easily love yourself, that will be when you can love others. Hold on to the past, yes, because your past is glorious. Your past is astounding and your past is something that can be the light to someone. Whether it saves their life or just helps them through the day doesn't matter, because in the end, you did something for someone that needed it. However, don’t hold on to the mistakes you've made. Figure out how to change them, then change them and move on and do not hate yourself for what you did and learn to forgive yourself because that is the key to happiness.

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Continue The Fight


In life, there is always something worth fighting for. Whatever that thing may be, you can continue fighting for it. Don’t lose sight of your main goal though because a lot of the time people get wrapped up in the steps to get there. Those steps are very crucial, but they aren't as important as containing yourself and maintaining your composure. Don’t let the things that other people do bring you down, because no matter how much it could hurt inside, it won’t destroy you and it won’t kill you. They say that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and that is very true. There is nothing that should be able to destroy you and if you feel that way, talk to someone before you go insane and do things that you will regret later on in life. Never let yourself fall short of the things that you as an astounding person can accomplish and above all, never give up hope in yourself. Things may get tougher and tougher as time ticks slowly by, but you should remain strong in yourself and let others who know how to help, help you because no one can do it alone. Let yourself become a person everyone adores and loves to be around. Step out of your comfort zone and try things new and different. Go without a fear of criticism and don’t be afraid to be embarrassed. When you can focus on these things, you will become a person who knows how to be strong, how to befriend their enemies, and above all, how to continue fighting. Never. Give. Up. 

Friday, May 17, 2013

Motivation


There are times when people may be feeling down about something and it is clear to see that because they aren't acting themselves. Make an effort to do something for them: help motivate them and show them that there is definitely something that they can do. Don’t let them feel down and be lazy. Get them out of their comfort zone, get them out of their little shell and let them open up. Don’t force them, but lead them out. There’s an old expression that says, “You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink.” Be the friend to another who needs it, who has been going through a tough time, especially lately, and open them up to the things you know they enjoy. Do whatever you can to show them that you are making an effort to give them what they need to, to become sociable, interactive, and incredible again. And above all, never give up hope for that person. They were once a caterpillar and they closed up inside their cocoon. Show them that it is spring now and that they can come out and see the world, finalizing their transformation from simple to incredible. Be their assistance and assure yourself that nothing you do is ever in vein.

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Do What Is Right


You go through life each and every day making choices without even thinking about it. You make choices to take the next step to walk, to talk to someone, and other simple things that you have been almost programmed to do over the past however long you've been alive. But there are also some choices in life that you have to think about. These choices can be easy, yes, but more often than not, if you are really thinking about them, they will be difficult to make. These choices may be life changing to not only you, but those around you. In your own world, realize the importance of making the right decision for your own benefit, but also for the benefit of others. Take the time to rearrange your thoughts and put them in line to accomplish what your real vision is. Doing what is right: That is the key to success. Your choices will always affect someone in some way so be careful what you choose to do. Grow in strength and confidence in yourself so that your choices will become something that others will want to follow and because of this, you will become a leader to many. But whatever you do, never walk alone. Every leader has someone they look up to; an idol, an influential person in their life, or even a power beyond what anyone could imagine. Make friends with those that are willing to help you, no matter their age. If they are younger than you and you can learn something from them, so be it. Don’t let your own pride get in the way of the strength and help you will need to become a leader.
There is always someone out there who will help you… someone cares, someone believes in you, someone knows what you’ve been through and is willing to show you that they can because they don’t care what you say to them, as long as they can help you. Things might be awkward between you and someone else, but fight through it because awkwardness is something that shouldn't be a barrier between people, between friends. Never lose sight of the purpose within your own life; to show others that someone cares about them, to be a helping hand to those who need it, and to never give up. Love greatly those around you, even if they seem to not like you because treating something evil, whether it is a thought inside yourself or actually true, with something good, will NEVER result in failure.

Monday, May 13, 2013

Professional


There are things in your life that people define you as. Maybe it is a sport you play or a song you write or a book you've published, but whatever it is that you have done, you will always be rewarded by your actions, as long as they are truly from your heart. You may not be as good as someone else at something, but no matter because what should define you and should define others, is that whatever your skill level, you are still a professional because being a professional means that you took the time to dedicate yourself to something, and time is a very important element of dedication. If you can spend time doing the things that you love doing, hoping for a future with whatever it is, it can happen. All you have to do is try and never give up. Don’t be an amateur and give up what you were striving for, until you know that it isn't meant for you. You can never waste your life striving for something because in the end, if you get it, it paid off. But if you don’t, you will walk away with a great knowledge and more strength than you had before you came to it. Use this as something to push you forward and give you a dream to pursue who you are. Don’t let others think less of you for being “defeated” as they might put it, because you are not and have not been defeated. You are stronger than you think you are. What people say and do is simply a mind game. Don’t go along with it… Instead, be a professional, showing that no matter what happens, there will always be a you and there will always be someone to be there for you. Never lose hope. Be strong, be courageous, be everything that you can be to help others if they need it. Let the things of your life be a good influence to those who hear and see you.